Min Liu – Conversation Superstar: The Fast Lane To Conversation Success
“People will never forgive you, if they even notice you, for being boring.” -Fredrik Eklund
Having a conversation is like taking a drive on the freeway.
When you drive on the freeway, you can get to wherever you’re going using the slow lane.
However, in the slow lane you will hit traffic, toll plazas, and sometimes, you may even get into accidents or get lost.
A drive in the slow lane is unpredictable, painful, and boring.
When it comes to conversations, most people’s conversations are just like a drive through traffic in the slow lane.
97%+ of all people, even articulate and intelligent people, can only make mediocre and mundane conversation.
There’s nothing “wrong” with their conversations, but they’re certainly not exciting. They’re not the stuff of a “conversation superstar”.
Their conversations are predictable, stiff, boring, and have the undesirable side-effects of repeated yawning and head nodding from temporary loss of consciousness. People go their whole lives having conversations like these, and its no wonder why conversation is a lost art.
However, what if instead of taking the slow lane on your drive, you take the express toll lanes?
You’ll arrive at your destination smoothly, quickly, and stress-free. If your car is fast enough and there are no speed limits, your drive will be extremely thrilling.
Just like the two types of driving, there are two types of conversations: “slow lane” conversations and “fast lane” conversations.
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